Love, Loss and the heartbreaking reality of grief.

It is normal to seek company, then sob in the bathroom 

and wish they’d all leave.

It is normal to kiss the photograph ten times a day

to keep every card

to keep smelling the scarf

To have a two way conversation when you are alone

It is normal to grieve the loss of your loved one with all your heart

To want them back so badly.

It is normal.

You Won't Just Cry When They Die is a must-read for anyone who has loved and lost and now feels abandoned, broken, and scared.

Offering 101 gentle messages, this little book will help you to survive, cope and gradually heal when your insurmountable loss is unbearable and your whole world falls apart.

This is the friend you so desperately needed when the person you needed most left your life.

You picked up this book for a reason. Trust in that reason.

A message for you ❤️

About Elizabeth Deacle

Elizabeth (Liz, to her friends, hello) has always been drawn to the spaces between people.

An author, podcaster, and content creator, Liz is a storyteller whose deepest passion is bringing people together, making them feel seen, heard, and understood.

Born in England and now living in New Zealand, Liz is an avid slow traveller, a mother, a wife, and a woman who believes in the healing power of being truly seen.

To connect with Elizabeth sign up for her newsletter. Here she shares her deepest thoughts and latest projects with you, her friends.

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FAQ

A Note on Shipping & Timing

Thank you for buying direct and supporting an independent author.

Every book is printed on-demand when you order it. This means no wasted copies and a fresh, crisp book made especially for you. While it requires a little extra patience, it’s a sustainable, heartfelt way to publish.

Thank you for choosing to support an independent author, it really makes all the difference.

A Note to our NZ, AUS, and CA customers

Due to very high shipping costs to your country, you might wish to purchase the book from Amazon (where they are able to offer far more competitive shipping rates).

I appreciate your support enormously, and am grateful to you for purchase.

I just can't bear the thought of you paying extortionate shipping costs!!

Do you ship worldwide?

Yes, we ship nearly everywhere in the world! Our print partner, Lulu, has facilities in the US, UK, Europe, and Australia, which allows us to offer efficient international shipping to most countries.

At checkout, simply enter your address, and the system will calculate the available shipping options and delivery timelines for your location.
Wherever you are, thank you for helping this book travel, and for supporting an independent author

How much is shipping?

Shipping is calculated in real-time by our print partner, Lulu, based on your location. When you purchase a paperback or hardback copy of the book, you’ll see the exact cost at checkout before you complete your order.
Thank you for supporting an independent author directly! It means more than you know.

When will my book arrive?

Because your book is printed specially for you (a process called print-on-demand), please allow extra time for creation and transit. Here are general estimates once your order is placed:

  • US & Canada: 7–14 business days
  • UK & Europe: 10–18 business days
  • Australia & New Zealand: 12–20 business days
    You’ll receive a tracking email as soon as it ships.

We sincerely appreciate your patience, it ensures no books go to waste and your copy is made just for you.

Do you offer refunds?

Due to the custom, print-on-demand nature of our books, we’re unable to accept returns or refunds for change of mind.
However, if your book arrives damaged or with a printing error, please contact us within 14 days with photos, and we’ll immediately send a replacement at no cost.
Your satisfaction matters deeply to us.

Can I listen to my audiobook on my phone?

Yes! Your audiobook is delivered instantly via BookFunnel. You’ll receive a simple link to download the files, which you can play in the BookFunnel app (iOS/Android), your phone’s music app, or stream directly from your private library online.

Can I read the eBook on my Kindle?

Yes, and your access is instant! Your ebook is delivered in the universal EPUB format via BookFunnel. Immediately after purchase, you'll receive an email with your download link.

To read it on a Kindle device or the Kindle app:

  1. Download the EPUB file from your BookFunnel library (or from the link in your email) to a computer or smartphone.
  2. Email the file to your Kindle’s personal email address (you can find this in your Amazon Kindle settings under "Personal Document Settings").
  3. Within a few minutes, the book will appear in your Kindle library, ready to read.

It’s super easy and quick. If you need any help, the fantastic support team at BookFunnel will personally walk you through it.

You can also read the ebook directly in the free BookFunnel app on any smartphone or tablet.


A Note to our NZ, AU, and CA customers...

Thank you so much for being here.

Due to very high shipping costs to your country, you might wish to purchase the book from Amazon (where they are able to offer far more competitive shipping rates).

I appreciate your support enormously, and am grateful to you for purchasing.

I just can't bear the thought of you paying extortionate shipping costs!